Yesterday my fren ask me how her heart is broken by her x-boyfren. Oho...perlukah aku yg motivate die pasal bab2 mcm nih? Nk cakap salah org takut die kecik ati plak..so layankan je la mendengar luahan hati die...hehehehe...
My fren said that x-boyfren tuh dh nk kawin. Then dalam masa dh nk kawen tu, stil contact2 ngn my fren to accept him as fren n dont get away from him..what u ols think readers? ape yg my fren perlu jawab?
Well ini nasihat aku pd kawan aku nih adalah dari pendapat aku sendiri...*based on my experience..cket2 la...*
-1st of all..when ur heart is broken, kalo rase nk nangis..sile lah jgn segan2 nk nagis puas2...jgn pendam..kalo u pendam, lg u sakit hati n x mustahil u akan jd seorg yg pendendam..
-Ok, about his request, If u can accept him as fren..then juz go on...tp jgn terlalu mengharap apa2 dr ur x-boyfren tu.
-tp if ur heart stil cannot accept him as fren n tgk muke die pn dh naik sedeh giler2 punyer..jgn layan die terus. Juz let him go.. get out of ur life. X payah la nk simpan2 pic die ke, ym die ke, no tepon die ke..buang terusss...and trust me, lama kelamaan u dh xder perasaaan ape2 kt die.. how long? depend on u...wat a surprise is, if u ade terserempak ngn ur x-boypren pasnih or die contact u balik, u dh xder sedih2 cm memule dulu. Sebb ape? sebb u dh anggap die cm org bese..dan even die nk jd kawan u pn, u dh leh terima...(reminder: boleh nk jadi kawan balik *juz fren, not more than that*..tp make sure hati u xkn terbuka lagi utk die di kemudian hari nnti..get it?)
- finally..dont forget Allah...byk2 berdoa, zikir n bace Quran...insyaAllah hati kite akan tenang. Be positif...kalo bukan die utk kite, mungkin Allah dh tentukn ade org lain yg lebih baik utk jd pasangan kite kelak...
It seems like a simple step...but actually stil takes time to do all these...
My fren said that x-boyfren tuh dh nk kawin. Then dalam masa dh nk kawen tu, stil contact2 ngn my fren to accept him as fren n dont get away from him..what u ols think readers? ape yg my fren perlu jawab?
Well ini nasihat aku pd kawan aku nih adalah dari pendapat aku sendiri...*based on my experience..cket2 la...*
-1st of all..when ur heart is broken, kalo rase nk nangis..sile lah jgn segan2 nk nagis puas2...jgn pendam..kalo u pendam, lg u sakit hati n x mustahil u akan jd seorg yg pendendam..
-Ok, about his request, If u can accept him as fren..then juz go on...tp jgn terlalu mengharap apa2 dr ur x-boyfren tu.
-tp if ur heart stil cannot accept him as fren n tgk muke die pn dh naik sedeh giler2 punyer..jgn layan die terus. Juz let him go.. get out of ur life. X payah la nk simpan2 pic die ke, ym die ke, no tepon die ke..buang terusss...and trust me, lama kelamaan u dh xder perasaaan ape2 kt die.. how long? depend on u...wat a surprise is, if u ade terserempak ngn ur x-boypren pasnih or die contact u balik, u dh xder sedih2 cm memule dulu. Sebb ape? sebb u dh anggap die cm org bese..dan even die nk jd kawan u pn, u dh leh terima...(reminder: boleh nk jadi kawan balik *juz fren, not more than that*..tp make sure hati u xkn terbuka lagi utk die di kemudian hari nnti..get it?)
- finally..dont forget Allah...byk2 berdoa, zikir n bace Quran...insyaAllah hati kite akan tenang. Be positif...kalo bukan die utk kite, mungkin Allah dh tentukn ade org lain yg lebih baik utk jd pasangan kite kelak...
It seems like a simple step...but actually stil takes time to do all these...
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